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5 Ways To Say I Love You On Valentines Day
Author: Alyice Edrich
As we settle into our relationships, it’s easy to get into a comfort zone and let everything about the relationship become routine: the peck on the cheek as we leave, the word, “I love you” in passing as we walk out the door, even the way we buy gifts. It’s easy to allow the relationship to become stale. But it doesn’t have to stay that way, this Valentine’s Day spruce things up with by showing how you really feel.
Give A Greeting Card
Whether you choose to make your own Valentine’s Day card, buy a blank one and write in your own sentiments, or create one by hand, it’s important to choose a card that says, “When I saw this card, I instantly thought of you.” Generic cards are a dime a dozen, but cards that express how you really feel—whether in design or in text—tell the recipient that this holiday is more about the individual and less about the obligation or the holiday.Deliver Balloons
Every year, we see commercials and advertisements enticing us to buy floral bouquets or fruit baskets—both of which are often overpriced and over-rated—this year, do something different. Visit a party store and hand pick twelve balloons that express how you feel, have them blown up, tied together with colorful ribbons, then delivered to the recipient’s place of work with a simple note: I’ll see you tonight. If you cannot find balloons that share your sentiments, create your own. After the balloons are blown up, grab a metallic marker and carefully write your sentiments on each balloon—you could even tape a few picture of the happy couple on the balloons.Give A Day Of Rest
Men and women work themselves to the bones these days, even days off are filled with so many activities and so much busyness that it’s hard to connect and “just be” in the moment. Instead of planning a romantic dinner out, opt for a day of complete and utter luxury. Find a day spa—the kind where you can lounge by the pool all day while the staff brings you food and drinks—and book a romantic get-a-way for two. Don’t schedule a bunch of activities, but do schedule a deep, relaxing “couples” massage when you first arrive.Create A Video Presentation
With all the software available these days, it’s easy to take a group of photos, some tender thoughts, and create a video presentation that says, “I not only love you but I cherish the moments we spend together.” Hand select twenty images over the past year that really reflect the love you two share—in the way you hold hands, in the way you sit close to each other, in the way you smile, in the activities you do together, in a kiss. Write a phrase, a two sentence thought, or a paragraph that depicts how you feel about the recipient or your relationship when you look at that photograph. Now add the photos and the text to your slideshow program, set it to a song you feel says what is in your heart, and then burn it on disc. Ask for a “chick-flick” movie night but instead of putting in a romantic film, put in your creation!Cook A Themed Meal
Sure, you can take the easy way out by eating out at the recipient’s favorite restaurant or trying the most expensive restaurant down the street, but nothing says, “I love you” like a home-cooked meal. Create an ambience indicative of the meal you prepare. If, for instance, you choose to cook your famous homemade spaghetti, create a little Italian bistro in your dining area complete with décor, music, candles, and quite possibly a volunteer Italian-dressed waiter.
Whatever you do this Valentine’s Day, it’s important to remember that you’re not doing it out of obligation but out of love. Show love in unusual ways and you’re sure to rekindle a little romance.
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