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Alyice Edrich

Honey
Every film has a defining moment...
you just have to look for it.


by Alyice Edrich
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Plot
A young woman’s dream of becoming New York’s next top choreographer is shattered when she’s blacklisted for not having sexual relations with her mentor. Armed with a new dream, she not only provides a place for the kids in her town to dance, but she finds true love and becomes a sought-after choreographer.

Starring
Jessica Alba, Lil' Romeo, Mekhi Phifer, David Moscow, Zachary Williams,

Honey and Chaz

Defining Moment
My daughter and I just finished watching, Honey, staring Jessica Alba. I loved this movie when it first came out and I still love it. It’s high energy; has a great family-friendly story line; and offers hope while instilling good morals and values. And if that isn’t enough, it leaves the viewer with a feel-good, “anything is possible” attitude. (And it was a pure delight to see my daughter’s face light up with excitement as she watched Honey’s dreams come true.)

There’s a part in the film where Honey is on a first date and she asks her date, the Barber shop owner, Chaz (Mekhi Phifer), how he turned out so good. He said he just got lucky. He told her a story about how the previous owner saw him going down the wrong road and took a special interest in him. When the shop owner died, he left the shop to Chaz.

Then as he distinguished himself from the drug dealer he grew up with, he said, “…like I’m the one who’s losing, like I’m missing something out there. But he and I both know who’s winning. I found something that I truly love, that truly makes me happy—that’s a million times better than finding something that makes you rich.”

Honey and ChazWhat a profound statement: simple, yet deep.

I think our society concentrates so much on having more, being more, and doing more that we’re made to feel guilty for being content with our station in life, for wanting careers that make us happy and not rich, or for wanting nothing more than to have more time with our family and friends. And I truly believe that we’ve forgotten how to ask ourselves, “If I do this, will I truly be happy?”

Maybe it feels selfish to want to be happy with what we do for a living, so we think about careers that can provide better lifestyles and more security for our children and spouses. But I have to wonder…if we’re miserable in our careers or miserable with our quest for more money, are we really helping our families or are we hurting them?

When I think about my kids and their future, I don’t see dollar figures, I want them to truly be happy with the careers they choose and the lives they live—so why, when I look at my own career, do I only see dollar figures? How did I get so off track?

Can you imagine waking up and going to work every day knowing that money isn’t the only reason you go to work? To do something you love so much that you pinch yourself every morning and ask, “Am I really getting paid to do this?”

That’s how my freelance writing career started. That’s where I’d like to see it again.

It’s never too late to start over. It’s never too late to follow your dreams. And it’s definitely never too late to be happy. If you’re not happy with your life, take the time to map out a new plan of action. Then pray about it, discuss it with your family, and take the necessary steps towards happiness.

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Update:
My daughter rediscovered Honey last week and has watched it five times a day, every day! When I asked her why, she said, "I like how Honey wants to do something for the kids to have a safe, fun place. I wish someone would do that for us; for every town. I love to watch the dance moves!" And with that, she went outside and began practicing her hip hop moves.


About The Author:
Alyice Edrich is the author of Mystery Shopping Earns You Perks! If you like getting free stuff, eating out on someone else’s dime, having your oil changed for free, and playing detective, then you’ll love working as a mystery shopper! Order a copy of Alyice’s infamous e-book at our e-book store for just $3.99.

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